Thursday, May 27, 2010

Destined to Arrive

The process of life though you may be unconscious of it, occurs in stages. Just as a baby developing in the womb, begins as an embryo and gradually grows into a full term foetus at nine months, your progress throughout is a series of steps. Whatever is your intended destination, be it personal growth, career advancement, improved relationships or even having a stress free day, planning is always necessary. You need to know where you are going in order to determine how you are going to get there.

Your surroundings are an important factor. To continually develop, the environmental conditions must be right. Being enveloped by negative energy, having a pessimistic mindset, listening to discouraging advice, or simply placing yourself in bad situations will in no way aid you in reaching your desired destination. Furthermore, refusing to recognize these circumstances as downfalls, state that you are willing to accept what is instead of working towards what can be, which keeps you stagnant.

In other words, human beings require nourishment. So practicing healthy habits in terms of setting standards, establishing goals, remaining focused, being open minded to change and understanding that growth is an ever learning process, will help you to be exactly where you want to be in life.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

The Struggle

Some personal issues are difficult in itself, to comprehend. You know a problem exists, you know it can be solved, but why does it exist? Why is there a problem when there should not be a problem?

During such moments you may doubt yourself, the intentions of others towards you and you may question what is truly important, causing a cloud of mystery to block your view of what lies ahead.

In times of struggle it is best to think things through thoroughly before you act. You can attempt to change a situation, but all you may actually be doing is fixing something that was not broken to begin with, as the real problem is hidden. Search deeply to find the root of the matter so that it can be properly dealt with and removed, for if the issue is left unresolved, swept under the rug, it will never go away.

In the end, all that you need to move within a cloud of mystery is a light, and the willpower to get through it.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

The Heart of The Matter

Never focus on the thoughts others may have of you.
Never focus on how many times you have tried, and how many times you have failed at trying.
Never focus on the stumbling blocks cast in your way.


Always focus on being the best you can be at everything.
Always focus on never giving up on achieving your goals.
Always focus on allowing nothing to obstruct your progress, and finding a way through the barricade.

Not everyone will receive you the same and not everyone will care about what you have to say, but if you know the message you bring will benefit someone, do not worry about those who would disagree. You cannot please everyone, nor should you intend to.

Criticism that is positive is always good, so to is the negative, as negative criticism is meant to strengthen the character.

Do not fear opposition but alternatively, see it as a conquest. It is utterly pointless to tiptoe through life apprehensive about the harsh judgement of others.